2025 Trip 5 – Return to St. Joseph, MO

This post is about our return to St. Joseph to move into our new house.

My last post had us leaving Prescott, Arizona heading for the airport in Phoenix. First, we stopped at the Cracker Barrel just outside of the airport and had lunch. Next, we dropped off Sylvia at the airport so she could fly back to California. From there, we started our drive to St. Joseph. We made it to Albuquerque by dinner time, had a decent meal, and got some sleep. The next day we drove all day and arrived at our old St. Joseph house around 11 pm. After a good night’s sleep, we started to prepare for our move. We had five days until we picked up our moving van. Then we had two days to load it and sign our documents selling the house. We had to be completely out by that day as well. Since the new house didn’t close for another five days, we stayed with Scott and Heather before we were finally able to move into our new house. And there were a few group social events during all of that as well.

Our first group event while packing was “Voices of the Past.” The experience started at the Wyeth Tootle Mansion. This year’s event was about famous musicians from St. Joseph Missouri. At the mansion, we started with a quick tour, then had our first “ghost” speakers.

After our ghost speakers, we walked to the buses that took us to the Mount Mora Cemetery for the rest of the program. Bobby and Scott were still in their golf outfits and it was quite the scene.

L to R: Scott, Heather, Bobby

At the cemetery, we heard from several more famous musician ghosts. It was very well done, as usual.

We have attended this event in the past and will definitely do it again. They would earn a link, but the website is rarely updated so I will not waste your time. The next night, we drove to Atchinson, Kansas for “Shocktails.” Shocktails is put on by the City of Atchinson, Kansas, which is considered by many to be the most haunted city in Kansas. We arrived at the city’s Visitor Center and had a few very watered-down drinks. Then it was on to a trolley for our haunted houses tour.

The first house we visited allegedly has documented cases of paranormal activity.

The homeowner gave our group a talk about all of the paranormal activity at her house. She said the basement and third floor rooms had the most activity. She also told us she rents out rooms on the third floor via Airbnb, and many guests have had paranormal experiences.

After the talk, we were allowed to tour the house. The main floor looked pretty normal.

Next, I went to the basement with Cindy and Heather.

There was a creepy room in the basement with a red light, but no ghosts for us.

Once we went back to the trolley, Bobby told us he visited the third floor and heard footsteps when there was no one with him. Bobby does not make things up, so I know he heard something. Then another person on our trolley claimed to have captured paranormal activity in the basement and shared the picture with all of us.

Many people on our tour believed the picture contained a ghost. I thought it contained a double exposure of a hand and the creepy red room in the basement. From the outside, the second house we visited looked like a normal older house in need of a little work.

There was a sign in Latin near the entrance.

The phrase “inter mortem et memoriam amor loquitur” translates to “between life and memory, love speaks” in English. This phrase reflects the idea that love and memory are powerful forces that transcend death and time. That let me know this was going to be an interesting visit and I was not disappointed. The homeowner talked about all of the paranormal activity in the house and believed it came from two sources. One was the fact the house was a kind of orphanage in the past and she believed some of the children were abused and died there. This was based on the house having a secret room that you had to access via a secret passage that went over a staircase.

The window on the right was to that secret room. Creepy story and the stairway felt creepy as well. Here is a picture of the most haunted room in the house. It felt normal to me.

The homeowner said the second reason the house was so haunted is because she was sure there were dead bodies buried in the basement and front yard. They continually excavate the basement but have not found anything yet. A cadaver dog hit on the front yard indicating something dead was buried in the yard. They dug up that part of the yard, but nothing. They plan to continue digging in the basement and yard until they find something. The next house we stopped at was really interesting.

The homeowner had purchased the house when it was in rough condition and has spent the last several years fixing it up. Here are some pictures of the inside.

He really likes Halloween and decorates the whole house. He also decorates for Christmas as well. Here is the homeowner holding his pet crow during our “talk.”

The homeowner explained how his house was also haunted, but by friendly spirits. They often hear noises, have things moved around, and see aberrations, but they are not negative or scary. I never felt anything negative in the house while we visited so maybe Casper does live there. Our final stop was at the “Sally House,” the most haunted house in Kansas. The basic story is the house was owned by the town doctor, and he did medical procedures and surgeries in the house. Several people died and are believed to be haunting the house. The most famous is a girl Sally, who died on the kitchen table during a failed appendix surgery. We have visited this house twice, and it felt heavy and off both times. This time was no different. The first two times we visited, I went to the children’s room and found a Magic 8 Ball. Both times I asked it if the house was haunted and both times it gave an affirmative answer. Once again, I went straight to the children’s room.

I found the Magic 8 Ball and once again asked it if the house was haunted. Here was the answer this time.

Make up your own mind, but to me, the Sally House was the only house we visited that night that I would not spend the night in. The next day, Cindy and I picked up the moving truck and started to load it.

We were able to load everything except for the really heavy items like dressers, beds, and couches. On Monday, Bobby, Don, and Marie helped us load the heavy items and we were officially out of the house and officially guests at Casa De Culver. That night, the whole gang went to see Don, Scott, Bobby, and Machelle bowl in their bowling league.

I loved how this sign was over the lane they were assigned. It said it all.

Friday rolled around and we signed the papers for our new house. Here we are with our realtor, Kristen Wilds.

We really do love our agent. If you need an agent for either Missouri or Kansas, use the link at the bottom of this post and tell Kristen we sent you. After we signed our papers, we drove the moving truck to the new house and unloaded with the help of Scott, Bobby, Don, Marie, and most importantly two college kids we hired to do the heavy lifting. With everyone’s efforts, we finished unloading the truck in only an hour. We are lucky to have such great friends. Now a little about the move. In an earlier post I talked about how a tornado came a little too close for comfort and our old house did not have a basement. We decided we really needed a basement. A larger kitchen and space for entertaining would be a bonus. We were able to get all of that with our new house. There were a few things we needed done, several of them being electrical related. We had Garrett fly out and spend a week with us to see the new house, do some electrical work, and also do some sightseeing. A few days into Garrett’s stay, we took him to the Den to see their Halloween decorations and have a drink. Here are some of the decorations.

The Den is always a great visit. If you want to visit, just use the link at the end of this post. A few days later, we visited the Remington Nature Center. It only takes a few hours to see the whole thing, and it is worth the time.

Feel free to use the link at the end of this post for information on the Remington Nature Center. A few days after this, Garrett flew home. We really enjoyed his visit and appreciated his help with the home projects. Our first group activity was at Scott and Heather’s house where we carved pumpkins.

I didn’t take any notes and forgot who did which pumpkin, with the exception of #7. Cindy and I did that one. Regardless of who did what, there were some creative pumpkins by the end of the night. A few days later, we all returned to the Den for Halloween trivia night. Below is the host Bob Schultz with Heather seated to the right.

Above, left to right: Heather, Marie, Scott, Don, Bobby

At the beginning of November, we finally found a dining room table big enough to seat 10 people. After it was delivered and set up, we hosted a large dinner.

L to R: Scott, Heather, Don, Marie, Bobby, Machelle, Cindy, Lauren

Everyone had a great time and the new table worked out perfectly. A few days later, we returned to the Den for beverages and to see their Christmas decorations.

They always do a great job at the Den so be sure to visit when you are in town. The last thing we did before Cindy and I headed back to California, was a round of golf even though it was November and had cooled of significantly.

When the weather gets that cold, here is how you have to dress to golf.

Cold or not, the four golf musketeers had a great time. My next post will be about our return to California, with stops in Kansas, and two in Texas. Until then, stay warm!

LINKS

Shocktails

Kristen Wilds – Real Estate Agent

The Den

Remington Nature Center

2025 Trip 3, Part 2 – St. Joseph, MO

This post was originally going to be about the second half of our return to our house in St. Joseph, MO. But we did so much fun stuff, I’m splitting the second half into two posts.

MAY

Early in the month, Don, Scott, Bobby, and I played in a golf tournament at the Fairview Golf Course. We played respectably but did not finish in the top ten.

L to R: Don, Scott, Bobby, me

A few days later, Cindy and I tried hiking at the River Bluff Trails Park. This is a park that has both hiking and off-road bicycle trails. The bike trails were no joke so we will definitely stick to the hiking trails.

If you are a serious mountain biker, or just looking for some interesting hiking trails, you should check this park out. Use the link below and strap on your hiking boots. After hiking, we had lunch at the B & B Runway Cafe at Rosecrans Memorial Airport. The Airport is a large general aviation / military joint-use airport located 3 miles northwest of St. Joseph and 35 miles north of Kansas City. The cafe had just been remodeled and was brand new. It is open for breakfast and lunch and is in the building with the current control tower.

The new control tower was being built behind the cafe and current control tower.

The cafe is next to a runway and provided an excellent view. There were a few C130’s parked near the cafe on our visit.

Besides the excellent view, the service was outstanding and the food was pretty good too. We both had the BBQ Pork Taco special.

The whole package made this a must visit, so use the link below to get your airplane and grub fix. The next evening, Scott, Heather, Machelle, Bobby, and I went to the Den for trivia night. Only four teams played and we managed to finish third. Here was our prize.

Our first trivia award! The next night there was a live band downtown. This prompted Don, Marie, Scott, Heather, Bobby, Machelle, Cindy, and I to eat dinner on the patio at Felix Street Gourmet.

Clockwise L to R: Me, Cindy, Machelle, Marie, Don, Heather, Scott

A few days later, a nasty storm blew in. In the early evening, a Tornado Watch was issued. That meant tornados were possible in the area, but none had been reported or seen on radar. I went outside to check the weather and the clouds in the sky were boiling.

That is an indicator of severe weather and was not a good sign. Our safe spot in our house was an interior half bathroom since we did not have a basement. Here it is ready to go in case of a tornado. And yes, those are bike helmets in case we needed them.

At 8:36pm, the sirens on our phone sounded and we received a Tornado Warning. That meant a tornado was either seen on radar or seen on the ground. We went into our safe place and put our helmets on.

At the same time our phones were issuing the tornado warning, the outside Tornado Siren started to wail. I checked my weather app and saw there was a tornado indicated about 10 miles southwest of us heading in our direction.

The actual weather around the tornado didn’t look that bad, so we were hoping it was a radar indicated tornado and had not touched down. After a few minutes, the outside siren went off, and the tornado symbol disappeared from the radar. We breathed a sigh of relief. But it was short lived. At 8:43pm, the outside sirens sounded again, and the tornado symbol reappeared on the weather app, only this time, it was about 7 miles southwest of us. It was now on target to barely miss us and hit Scott and Heather’s house instead. It was also in an area of really bad weather, so it was probably a tornado on the ground this time. We texted Scott and Heather to warn them and returned to our half bathroom shelter and our helmets.

After a very long minute, the outside siren went off again, and the tornado symbol disappeared from the radar. We remained in our half bathroom hiding spot hoping for the best. A minute later, 8:45pm to be exact, the outside sirens sounded for a third time and the tornado symbol reappeared on the weather map. This time, it was about 4 miles southwest of us and was on track to go between us and Scott and Heather, assuming it didn’t change course again. It was still in a really bad weather area, so it could be on the ground.

This time the siren stayed on for a few minutes before going off for good. We checked on Scott and Heather and they were safe, but had a tree down in their yard that just missed their house and carriage house.

The next day the weather service confirmed an EF0 tornado had been down near us. An EF0 tornado typically has wind speeds of 65-85 mph. It is the lowest intensity on the Enhanced Fujita scale. More than half of all reported tornados are classified as EF0. Damage from an EF0 tornado is typically light, causing minor damage to trees and signs, and some damage to roofs. The news reported the tornado had not made it to our or Scott and Heather’s neighborhood, but when I went to their house to help Scott with the downed tree, there was enough damage at their house and some of their neighbors’ houses to make me believe the tornado had come through their neighborhood. Here is some of the damage in their yard.

And here is the large tree that split and half of it came down in the driveway between the house and the carriage house.

After several hours of going at the tree with chainsaws, we were able to reduce it to this.

This storm, and our lack of a basement, really got our attention. But more on that in a future post. A week later, the whole gang was back at the Den for their monthly “New Drink Tasting.”

They had mini charcuterie snacks to enjoy before the tasting.

And an interesting lineup of new drinks.

As usual, there were some really good ones and a few that were not for me. The first two were not for me.

The Cody to Go was pretty good and I was not a fan of the By the Gin of My Teeth.

I really like these two.

The Den is always link worthy. Check it out on my Blog Links page. At the end of the month, Scott was able to get he and I tickets to a KC Royals game. They played the Detroit Tigers and unfortunately, lost 7-5.

After the game, they had a firework show.

JUNE

June started off with the whole gang going to the Kansas City Zoo and Aquarium.

L to R: Heather, Scott, Bobby, Machelle

As you can guess, there were a lot of animals. Here is a sea otter.

Some monkeys.

Birds.

A sloth.

Some napping kangaroos.

The hippos were popular.

So popular, Machelle and Bobby had to ride some.

They even had some dinosaur displays.

We ran out of time, so we did not visit the aquarium part of the zoo. Overall, it is a nice zoo. Not quite link worthy, but a nice zoo worth visiting when in Kansas City. About a week later, Don and Marie invited the gang to go to Don’s nephew’s lake house on Lake Viking. It was their yearly get together with live music. The front of the house looked like a small house, but it was deceptive.

It was built into the side of a hill, very close to the water.

The back side showed how big the house really was.

There was a concrete area behind the house where a singer played for a few hours.

We all had a great time. On the way home, there was a beautiful sunset.

The next week we all went to the city’s “Party on the Parkway.” These are events the city hosts at different parks along the parkway (a series of bicycle and walking trails). The event is held once a month during the summer and there are vendors and a live band. They are very popular.

We all had a great time and will definitely do it again.

That concludes this post. Stay tuned for the final installment of our return to St. Joseph. Until then, feel free to party away on the parkway!

LINKS

River Bluff Trails Park

B & B Runway Cafe