2025 Trip 5 – Return to St. Joseph, MO

This post is about our return to St. Joseph to move into our new house.

My last post had us leaving Prescott, Arizona heading for the airport in Phoenix. First, we stopped at the Cracker Barrel just outside of the airport and had lunch. Next, we dropped off Sylvia at the airport so she could fly back to California. From there, we started our drive to St. Joseph. We made it to Albuquerque by dinner time, had a decent meal, and got some sleep. The next day we drove all day and arrived at our old St. Joseph house around 11 pm. After a good night’s sleep, we started to prepare for our move. We had five days until we picked up our moving van. Then we had two days to load it and sign our documents selling the house. We had to be completely out by that day as well. Since the new house didn’t close for another five days, we stayed with Scott and Heather before we were finally able to move into our new house. And there were a few group social events during all of that as well.

Our first group event while packing was “Voices of the Past.” The experience started at the Wyeth Tootle Mansion. This year’s event was about famous musicians from St. Joseph Missouri. At the mansion, we started with a quick tour, then had our first “ghost” speakers.

After our ghost speakers, we walked to the buses that took us to the Mount Mora Cemetery for the rest of the program. Bobby and Scott were still in their golf outfits and it was quite the scene.

L to R: Scott, Heather, Bobby

At the cemetery, we heard from several more famous musician ghosts. It was very well done, as usual.

We have attended this event in the past and will definitely do it again. They would earn a link, but the website is rarely updated so I will not waste your time. The next night, we drove to Atchinson, Kansas for “Shocktails.” Shocktails is put on by the City of Atchinson, Kansas, which is considered by many to be the most haunted city in Kansas. We arrived at the city’s Visitor Center and had a few very watered-down drinks. Then it was on to a trolley for our haunted houses tour.

The first house we visited allegedly has documented cases of paranormal activity.

The homeowner gave our group a talk about all of the paranormal activity at her house. She said the basement and third floor rooms had the most activity. She also told us she rents out rooms on the third floor via Airbnb, and many guests have had paranormal experiences.

After the talk, we were allowed to tour the house. The main floor looked pretty normal.

Next, I went to the basement with Cindy and Heather.

There was a creepy room in the basement with a red light, but no ghosts for us.

Once we went back to the trolley, Bobby told us he visited the third floor and heard footsteps when there was no one with him. Bobby does not make things up, so I know he heard something. Then another person on our trolley claimed to have captured paranormal activity in the basement and shared the picture with all of us.

Many people on our tour believed the picture contained a ghost. I thought it contained a double exposure of a hand and the creepy red room in the basement. From the outside, the second house we visited looked like a normal older house in need of a little work.

There was a sign in Latin near the entrance.

The phrase “inter mortem et memoriam amor loquitur” translates to “between life and memory, love speaks” in English. This phrase reflects the idea that love and memory are powerful forces that transcend death and time. That let me know this was going to be an interesting visit and I was not disappointed. The homeowner talked about all of the paranormal activity in the house and believed it came from two sources. One was the fact the house was a kind of orphanage in the past and she believed some of the children were abused and died there. This was based on the house having a secret room that you had to access via a secret passage that went over a staircase.

The window on the right was to that secret room. Creepy story and the stairway felt creepy as well. Here is a picture of the most haunted room in the house. It felt normal to me.

The homeowner said the second reason the house was so haunted is because she was sure there were dead bodies buried in the basement and front yard. They continually excavate the basement but have not found anything yet. A cadaver dog hit on the front yard indicating something dead was buried in the yard. They dug up that part of the yard, but nothing. They plan to continue digging in the basement and yard until they find something. The next house we stopped at was really interesting.

The homeowner had purchased the house when it was in rough condition and has spent the last several years fixing it up. Here are some pictures of the inside.

He really likes Halloween and decorates the whole house. He also decorates for Christmas as well. Here is the homeowner holding his pet crow during our “talk.”

The homeowner explained how his house was also haunted, but by friendly spirits. They often hear noises, have things moved around, and see aberrations, but they are not negative or scary. I never felt anything negative in the house while we visited so maybe Casper does live there. Our final stop was at the “Sally House,” the most haunted house in Kansas. The basic story is the house was owned by the town doctor, and he did medical procedures and surgeries in the house. Several people died and are believed to be haunting the house. The most famous is a girl Sally, who died on the kitchen table during a failed appendix surgery. We have visited this house twice, and it felt heavy and off both times. This time was no different. The first two times we visited, I went to the children’s room and found a Magic 8 Ball. Both times I asked it if the house was haunted and both times it gave an affirmative answer. Once again, I went straight to the children’s room.

I found the Magic 8 Ball and once again asked it if the house was haunted. Here was the answer this time.

Make up your own mind, but to me, the Sally House was the only house we visited that night that I would not spend the night in. The next day, Cindy and I picked up the moving truck and started to load it.

We were able to load everything except for the really heavy items like dressers, beds, and couches. On Monday, Bobby, Don, and Marie helped us load the heavy items and we were officially out of the house and officially guests at Casa De Culver. That night, the whole gang went to see Don, Scott, Bobby, and Machelle bowl in their bowling league.

I loved how this sign was over the lane they were assigned. It said it all.

Friday rolled around and we signed the papers for our new house. Here we are with our realtor, Kristen Wilds.

We really do love our agent. If you need an agent for either Missouri or Kansas, use the link at the bottom of this post and tell Kristen we sent you. After we signed our papers, we drove the moving truck to the new house and unloaded with the help of Scott, Bobby, Don, Marie, and most importantly two college kids we hired to do the heavy lifting. With everyone’s efforts, we finished unloading the truck in only an hour. We are lucky to have such great friends. Now a little about the move. In an earlier post I talked about how a tornado came a little too close for comfort and our old house did not have a basement. We decided we really needed a basement. A larger kitchen and space for entertaining would be a bonus. We were able to get all of that with our new house. There were a few things we needed done, several of them being electrical related. We had Garrett fly out and spend a week with us to see the new house, do some electrical work, and also do some sightseeing. A few days into Garrett’s stay, we took him to the Den to see their Halloween decorations and have a drink. Here are some of the decorations.

The Den is always a great visit. If you want to visit, just use the link at the end of this post. A few days later, we visited the Remington Nature Center. It only takes a few hours to see the whole thing, and it is worth the time.

Feel free to use the link at the end of this post for information on the Remington Nature Center. A few days after this, Garrett flew home. We really enjoyed his visit and appreciated his help with the home projects. Our first group activity was at Scott and Heather’s house where we carved pumpkins.

I didn’t take any notes and forgot who did which pumpkin, with the exception of #7. Cindy and I did that one. Regardless of who did what, there were some creative pumpkins by the end of the night. A few days later, we all returned to the Den for Halloween trivia night. Below is the host Bob Schultz with Heather seated to the right.

Above, left to right: Heather, Marie, Scott, Don, Bobby

At the beginning of November, we finally found a dining room table big enough to seat 10 people. After it was delivered and set up, we hosted a large dinner.

L to R: Scott, Heather, Don, Marie, Bobby, Machelle, Cindy, Lauren

Everyone had a great time and the new table worked out perfectly. A few days later, we returned to the Den for beverages and to see their Christmas decorations.

They always do a great job at the Den so be sure to visit when you are in town. The last thing we did before Cindy and I headed back to California, was a round of golf even though it was November and had cooled of significantly.

When the weather gets that cold, here is how you have to dress to golf.

Cold or not, the four golf musketeers had a great time. My next post will be about our return to California, with stops in Kansas, and two in Texas. Until then, stay warm!

LINKS

Shocktails

Kristen Wilds – Real Estate Agent

The Den

Remington Nature Center

2025 Trip 3, Part 3 – St. Joseph, MO

This post is about the rest of our return trip to our house in St. Joseph, Missouri minus a side trip Cindy and I did to Hannibal, Missouri, which will be its own post.

MIDDLE OF JUNE

This post starts with us taking our adopted parents, Nancy and Denby (Scott’s real parents), to a taco dinner at Smooth Endings. They were in town watching Scott and Heather’s dogs while they were away on a family vacation.

L to R: Nancy, Cindy, Denby

My guess is this was their first time eating tacos in the back of the liquor store. Also, possibly their last, but they were great sports about it. We love going to Smooth Endings ourselves. If you are looking for a neat place to have a drink, or somewhere to buy some drinks to go, or even looking for cigars, Smooth Endings is the place to visit. And every Friday, Adrian’s Tacos is there serving up fresh and delicious tacos. Check it out for yourself using the link at the end of this post. Starting in 2025, St. Joseph has an arena football team, the St. Joseph Goats.

They play at the Civic Center in downtown. Of course we had to see a game. We saw them play the Iowa Woo. Our seats were just a few rows away from the field with a great view. Here are the goats warming up before the game.

There were tables and seats right next to the field. The out of bounds for the field is the wall where the table and seats are. It allows for a very close game experience.

Unfortunately, it was too close of an experience for one of the fans who was sitting at the wall and not paying attention. They ended up taking a helmet to the face at full speed.

If you are lucky enough to get seats by the field wall, pay attention. The game was really exciting. Arena football is a very fast paced high scoring game. Our game was tied 28-28 at half time.

With 26 seconds left in the game, the Goats were down 74-60. We thought the game was over.

But 10 seconds later, they scored a touchdown and were down by only 7 points with 16 seconds left in the game.

The Goats did an onside kick off, got the ball back, and scored one play later.

With four seconds left in the game, they missed the extra point and lost by one. It was a really exciting ending to a fun game. After the game both teams showed great sportsmanship by meeting at midfield for a prayer and camaraderie.

We will definitely see some more games next year. If you want to join us, use the link at the end of this post to get your tickets. Later in the month we had a lot of thunderstorms. Once again, Scott and Heather were the worse victims of the weather. They had lightning strike a large tree in their yard and do a number on it.

After the lightning drama, we all went to the Den for their monthly new drink tasting. We had bought Bobby some goat ears and horns to wear to the next Goat’s game. Here he is modeling them at the Den.

The tasting was up to the Den’s usual high standards. It started with the My-Jito which was a play on a Mojito. I really enjoyed.

Next up was the Sage of Innocence. Not my favorite, but others seemed to enjoy it.

The third drink was one of my favorites. Of course it had bourbon in it. It was named Vegas baby.

Next was a take on a dirty martini. It was called a Dirty Girl and was my second favorite drink of the night.

The last drink of the night had two of my least favorite flavors, basil and absinthe. It was called the Green Thai Affair and I gave mine away after a tiny sip.

As usual, the Den earned itself a link. You know where it is. While we were sipping away, it poured rain outside.

Luckily for us, it stopped raining right as we were leaving so we stayed dry on the way home. The month ended with Scott and I going to Kauffman Stadium to see the Royals play the defending World Series Champions (and also current back-to-back champions) Los Angeles Dodgers. The game was sold out and it looked like everyone showed up.

We had amazing seats several rows from right field.

The game started with the Dodgers’ first batter, Shohei Ohtani, hitting a home run to right field right in front of Scott and I. The Dodgers ultimately won the game, but the Royals kept it close.

JULY

July started with a golf trip to Mound City. After golf, we had lunch at Toad Hollar. They have a hilarious bathroom. Check it out.

We had plans to spend the fourth of July with Scott and Heather. To prepare for the evening, we stopped at Border War Fireworks. It is basically a giant warehouse filled with fireworks.

I loved how they had a “Kid’s Pack” of explosives.

On the night of the fourth, we hung with Scott and Heather and lit off all of our collective fireworks.

This took us to the part of the trip where we decided to sell our house that doesn’t have a basement and buy one that does. All along, we had been doing small home improvements, and we spent our last few days in Missouri finishing up all of our projects. Our plan was to return in October and list the house. We flew back to California and realized we should have talked to our realtor before deciding when the best time was to sell in Missouri. We made the call and learned our best shot at selling was over the summer because sales really slowed down in the fall and were even slower in the winter. Our little oversite caused us to hop back on a plane to Missouri, spent two frantic days preparing the house to be shown at open houses, then drive back to California in two days. That was a crazy five days. A future post will detail how the home sale went and where we ended up.

My next post will be about our trip to Hannibal, Missouri, Samuel Clemens hometown. Until then, feel free to visit a few open houses.

LINKS

Smooth Endings

St. Joseph Goats

The Den