2025 Trip 5 – Return to St. Joseph, MO

This post is about our return to St. Joseph to move into our new house.

My last post had us leaving Prescott, Arizona heading for the airport in Phoenix. First, we stopped at the Cracker Barrel just outside of the airport and had lunch. Next, we dropped off Sylvia at the airport so she could fly back to California. From there, we started our drive to St. Joseph. We made it to Albuquerque by dinner time, had a decent meal, and got some sleep. The next day we drove all day and arrived at our old St. Joseph house around 11 pm. After a good night’s sleep, we started to prepare for our move. We had five days until we picked up our moving van. Then we had two days to load it and sign our documents selling the house. We had to be completely out by that day as well. Since the new house didn’t close for another five days, we stayed with Scott and Heather before we were finally able to move into our new house. And there were a few group social events during all of that as well.

Our first group event while packing was “Voices of the Past.” The experience started at the Wyeth Tootle Mansion. This year’s event was about famous musicians from St. Joseph Missouri. At the mansion, we started with a quick tour, then had our first “ghost” speakers.

After our ghost speakers, we walked to the buses that took us to the Mount Mora Cemetery for the rest of the program. Bobby and Scott were still in their golf outfits and it was quite the scene.

L to R: Scott, Heather, Bobby

At the cemetery, we heard from several more famous musician ghosts. It was very well done, as usual.

We have attended this event in the past and will definitely do it again. They would earn a link, but the website is rarely updated so I will not waste your time. The next night, we drove to Atchinson, Kansas for “Shocktails.” Shocktails is put on by the City of Atchinson, Kansas, which is considered by many to be the most haunted city in Kansas. We arrived at the city’s Visitor Center and had a few very watered-down drinks. Then it was on to a trolley for our haunted houses tour.

The first house we visited allegedly has documented cases of paranormal activity.

The homeowner gave our group a talk about all of the paranormal activity at her house. She said the basement and third floor rooms had the most activity. She also told us she rents out rooms on the third floor via Airbnb, and many guests have had paranormal experiences.

After the talk, we were allowed to tour the house. The main floor looked pretty normal.

Next, I went to the basement with Cindy and Heather.

There was a creepy room in the basement with a red light, but no ghosts for us.

Once we went back to the trolley, Bobby told us he visited the third floor and heard footsteps when there was no one with him. Bobby does not make things up, so I know he heard something. Then another person on our trolley claimed to have captured paranormal activity in the basement and shared the picture with all of us.

Many people on our tour believed the picture contained a ghost. I thought it contained a double exposure of a hand and the creepy red room in the basement. From the outside, the second house we visited looked like a normal older house in need of a little work.

There was a sign in Latin near the entrance.

The phrase “inter mortem et memoriam amor loquitur” translates to “between life and memory, love speaks” in English. This phrase reflects the idea that love and memory are powerful forces that transcend death and time. That let me know this was going to be an interesting visit and I was not disappointed. The homeowner talked about all of the paranormal activity in the house and believed it came from two sources. One was the fact the house was a kind of orphanage in the past and she believed some of the children were abused and died there. This was based on the house having a secret room that you had to access via a secret passage that went over a staircase.

The window on the right was to that secret room. Creepy story and the stairway felt creepy as well. Here is a picture of the most haunted room in the house. It felt normal to me.

The homeowner said the second reason the house was so haunted is because she was sure there were dead bodies buried in the basement and front yard. They continually excavate the basement but have not found anything yet. A cadaver dog hit on the front yard indicating something dead was buried in the yard. They dug up that part of the yard, but nothing. They plan to continue digging in the basement and yard until they find something. The next house we stopped at was really interesting.

The homeowner had purchased the house when it was in rough condition and has spent the last several years fixing it up. Here are some pictures of the inside.

He really likes Halloween and decorates the whole house. He also decorates for Christmas as well. Here is the homeowner holding his pet crow during our “talk.”

The homeowner explained how his house was also haunted, but by friendly spirits. They often hear noises, have things moved around, and see aberrations, but they are not negative or scary. I never felt anything negative in the house while we visited so maybe Casper does live there. Our final stop was at the “Sally House,” the most haunted house in Kansas. The basic story is the house was owned by the town doctor, and he did medical procedures and surgeries in the house. Several people died and are believed to be haunting the house. The most famous is a girl Sally, who died on the kitchen table during a failed appendix surgery. We have visited this house twice, and it felt heavy and off both times. This time was no different. The first two times we visited, I went to the children’s room and found a Magic 8 Ball. Both times I asked it if the house was haunted and both times it gave an affirmative answer. Once again, I went straight to the children’s room.

I found the Magic 8 Ball and once again asked it if the house was haunted. Here was the answer this time.

Make up your own mind, but to me, the Sally House was the only house we visited that night that I would not spend the night in. The next day, Cindy and I picked up the moving truck and started to load it.

We were able to load everything except for the really heavy items like dressers, beds, and couches. On Monday, Bobby, Don, and Marie helped us load the heavy items and we were officially out of the house and officially guests at Casa De Culver. That night, the whole gang went to see Don, Scott, Bobby, and Machelle bowl in their bowling league.

I loved how this sign was over the lane they were assigned. It said it all.

Friday rolled around and we signed the papers for our new house. Here we are with our realtor, Kristen Wilds.

We really do love our agent. If you need an agent for either Missouri or Kansas, use the link at the bottom of this post and tell Kristen we sent you. After we signed our papers, we drove the moving truck to the new house and unloaded with the help of Scott, Bobby, Don, Marie, and most importantly two college kids we hired to do the heavy lifting. With everyone’s efforts, we finished unloading the truck in only an hour. We are lucky to have such great friends. Now a little about the move. In an earlier post I talked about how a tornado came a little too close for comfort and our old house did not have a basement. We decided we really needed a basement. A larger kitchen and space for entertaining would be a bonus. We were able to get all of that with our new house. There were a few things we needed done, several of them being electrical related. We had Garrett fly out and spend a week with us to see the new house, do some electrical work, and also do some sightseeing. A few days into Garrett’s stay, we took him to the Den to see their Halloween decorations and have a drink. Here are some of the decorations.

The Den is always a great visit. If you want to visit, just use the link at the end of this post. A few days later, we visited the Remington Nature Center. It only takes a few hours to see the whole thing, and it is worth the time.

Feel free to use the link at the end of this post for information on the Remington Nature Center. A few days after this, Garrett flew home. We really enjoyed his visit and appreciated his help with the home projects. Our first group activity was at Scott and Heather’s house where we carved pumpkins.

I didn’t take any notes and forgot who did which pumpkin, with the exception of #7. Cindy and I did that one. Regardless of who did what, there were some creative pumpkins by the end of the night. A few days later, we all returned to the Den for Halloween trivia night. Below is the host Bob Schultz with Heather seated to the right.

Above, left to right: Heather, Marie, Scott, Don, Bobby

At the beginning of November, we finally found a dining room table big enough to seat 10 people. After it was delivered and set up, we hosted a large dinner.

L to R: Scott, Heather, Don, Marie, Bobby, Machelle, Cindy, Lauren

Everyone had a great time and the new table worked out perfectly. A few days later, we returned to the Den for beverages and to see their Christmas decorations.

They always do a great job at the Den so be sure to visit when you are in town. The last thing we did before Cindy and I headed back to California, was a round of golf even though it was November and had cooled of significantly.

When the weather gets that cold, here is how you have to dress to golf.

Cold or not, the four golf musketeers had a great time. My next post will be about our return to California, with stops in Kansas, and two in Texas. Until then, stay warm!

LINKS

Shocktails

Kristen Wilds – Real Estate Agent

The Den

Remington Nature Center

2024 Trip 2, Part 4 – Our Return to St. Joseph, MO With a Visit from Todd and Edie

This post was originally going to cover the rest of our trip to St. Joseph, MO. But we did so much stuff that it got too long. So now this post will only cover our visit by Todd and Edie. What are you waiting for, let’s go!

After our eventless and enjoyable drive back to St. Joseph, we grabbed some dinner for ourselves and our soon to arrive guests, Todd and Edie. They drove across the country from California to Tennessee and Kentucky, during some pretty questionable weather, and encountered none of it. Cindy and I were jealous. They had visited with some of their Kentucky (and other places) family and visited some distilleries in Tennessee and Kentucky. The main event of their trip was to attend the 150th anniversary of the running of the Kentucky Derby, complete with the hats, suits, dresses, and of course the mint julips. Now they were going to stay with us for five nights and learn what we love (and don’t like) about the Midwest. Because the storm we had driven around was supposed to hit us before midnight, we had to prepare Todd and Edie for that possibility. Ater explaining the difference between a tornado watch and warning, describing the tornado siren, and showing them our version of a tornado shelter, Edie was not a happy camper. She said if there was a tornado watch, we could “watch” her run to her car and drive back to California.

After dinner at our house, we all got some well needed sleep. Luckily, the storm missed us like so many of them thankfully do. The next day we went for lunch at Joe’s Kansas City BBQ. This is one of our favorite BBQ places and we really wanted to share it with Todd and Edie. Todd is great at making BBQ. He smokes and BBQ’s different types of meats and other things, like a smoked cream cheese appetizer that is just phenomenal. And don’t get me started on his Armadillo Eggs. They are top notch. With all of Todd’s BBQ cooking experience and Edie’s BBQ tasting experience, we wanted to see if they enjoyed Joe’s as much as we did. We arrived at 11 AM, right when they opened. This was a great strategy as we were one of the first people in.

I had the Z-Man Sandwich, their signature sandwich. It had beef brisket, smoked provolone cheese, with two crispy onion rings, on a toasted Kaiser roll.

Cindy and Edie had the Pulled Chicken Breast Sandwich which was a smoked chicken breast, BBQ mayo, lettuce and tomato jam on a potato bun.

And Todd had the beef ribs with burnt ends, a good choice to judge their BBQ talent.

We loved our food, as usual. But what was the “Todd Ruling?” Todd says they earned a link. You know where it is. After our delicious lunch, we headed over to Union Horse Distillery. Their website said they were open, and we were excited to try some local whiskeys and spirits.

It turned out their offices were open, but the distillery and tasting room were closed. Dirty rats. Not only do they not get a link, they get a thumbs down for having such a misleading website. From there we went to the Country Club Plaza for coffee and shopping. We returned home, freshened up for dinner, and all headed out to Smooth Endings for drinks and Taco Tuesday. We met the Culvers and Broyles there and had a great time. The next day Bobby and I took Todd to the Mound City Golf Course. Scott had to work so he couldn’t make this trip. The course was in great shape.

Here we are on the 7th hole tee box. The 7th hole borders a cemetery, so yes that is a cemetery in the background.

L to R, Todd, Bobby, and me

Another great time was had by all. If you want to golf next to a cemetery, use the link below. The next day, we went to Atchison Kansas to visit the most haunted house in Kansas, the Salle House. We visited this house once before, but Todd and Edie had not been there, and they like spooky stuff. We were a little early for our appointment, so we stopped to see the Missouri River, which was swollen due to a lot of rain along its route. Here is a full-sized tree trunk floating down the river.

Next stop was the haunted Salle House.

Here is some of the basic story of how the Salle House came to be haunted.

I’m sure you guessed that Salle didn’t make it through the surgery and now haunts the house. But she is allegedly not the only one.

Three ghosts. Holy cow. And there have been numerous investigative teams and shows that claim the Salle House is legitimately haunted.

During our first visit, I never felt anything specific that felt “haunted.” It was the same on this visit. But it is a creepy house. It smells musty and just feels a little off. Here is the dangerous staircase to the second floor and a creepy baby doll in a carriage.

The kids’room is still very unsettling.

Once again, there was a Magic 8 Ball in the kids’ room. Last time I asked it if the Salle House was haunted and it answered, “Yes, Definitely.”

I had to ask the same question again. Here was the result.

The Magic 8 Ball cannot be wrong twice, so clearly the house is haunted. If you want to visit a haunted house, fell free to use the link at the end of this post. Atchison Kansas has a bunch of alleged haunted houses. We drove by several of them.

We stopped at the visitor’s center and there was a display for MGP Distillery. There is a MGP distillery in Atchinson. Even though you may think you have not heard of MGP distillery, you have probably drunk some of their whiskey if you’re a whiskey drinker. If you have drunk Templeton Rye, Angel’s Envy Rye, Bulleit Rye, James E Pepper 1776 Bourbon and Rye, or Whistle Pig Old World Rye, you have drunk MGP whiskeys and bourbons. Since I love ryes, I have had the majority of the rye’s they produce.

At the visitor’s center, we spoke to Ms. Krueger, who had booked our Salle House tour. What a perfect name for booking tours at a haunted house. And that was not lost on her. She said her now deceased husband would get a lot of prank calls from kids because of his last name. If they called more than once, he would threaten to go into their dreams and harm them. They rarely called again. You have to love someone with a great sense of humor like that. Ms. Krueger recommended we eat at Jerry’s Again in downtown Atchinson.

Jerry’s Again is located in a historic building in the downtown area. The food was average at best and there will be no link in the usual place. Ms. Kruger may know scary, but she doesn’t know great food. On the drive home, we stopped at the Riverwood Winery and Distillery. Todd and I did a whiskey tasting. Todd tried a few local whiskeys, while I tried a rye selection.

One of the ryes was from Union Horse, the place that was open, but not for tastings. That turned out to be my least favorite so maybe we were lucky they were not open for tastings. Todd and I enjoyed our tastings and can recommend a stop at Riverwood Winery. Use the link below. We headed home, then Todd and I were off to golf in the Men’s Leage at Copperhill Golf Course. We scored a respectable 34, which was 5 over par. The girls joined us after golf at Prestyn’s where we had dinner and drinks. We went home and rested up for a very busy next day.

The next day we went to Weston for lunch and shopping. We had lunch at the Tin Kitchen, one of our favorites. It was delicious and earned a link that you can find in the usual place. One of the stores on the main street in downtown had an amazing collection of taxidermy. See for yourself.

After seeing all of the stuffed dead animals, we went off to a tour at the Holladay Distillery. The Holladay Distillery is just outside of Weston. It was founded in 1856 and is the oldest distillery west of the Mississippi River that remains at its original site. In 2016, they started making bourbon whiskey again, using the original recipe from 160 years ago. Now why is Missouri a great place to make whiskey? Because of the abundance of limestone springs in the area. That makes Weston, Missouri, an ideal location for bourbon production. And an ideal location to tour a bourbon whiskey distillery. Here is our tour guide, Morgan.

She did an outstanding job on our tour, and we actually learned some things even though we have been on numerous bourbon whiskey tours. Here are some pictures from our tour.

Here is the original spring visited by the Lewis and Clarke Expedition in 1804.

And here is the original Bonded Ancient Cave.

And here is the best part of the tour, the whiskey tasting. Delicious. If you want an excellent whiskey distillery tour, check out the link below.

We hustled back to our house and freshened up for dinner and a concert. We went to dinner at Room 108 with the Culvers (the Broyles were golfing). The meal was delicious and had a unique twist. They had free bahn mi tacos. I really like free and I like bahn mi so I had to try them.

They were pretty darn good, and I would even pay for them next time if I had to. Of course they earned a link that is below. Our next stop was the Missouri Theater to see a Neil Diamond tribute band. It was Matt Vee and the Killer Vees Celebrate the Music of Neil Diamond, I Am…..He Said.

The band has Matt Vee, who performs as Neil Diamond. The band includes his cousins Jeff and Tommy Vee, both local music scene veterans and sons of the legendary Bobby Vee. Up until seeing this band, the Chicago cover band Brass Transit was hands down the best tribute band I have ever seen. However, this band had great energy, great stories about Neil Diamond and Bobby Vee, and put on an enjoyable show. I didn’t realize Neil wrote “I’m a believer” and had it recorded at the same time as the Monkeys. I always knew the Monkey’s version, then the Smashmouth version, which were both hits.

I left feeling this was the second-best tribute band I have ever seen. Then I kept singing Neil Diamond songs for the next two weeks. I would definitely see them again. If you want to see them, you can use the link below. After the show, we had a drink at Jake’s Steakhouse and Bar before heading home. The next day Todd and Edie headed back to California, ending a great visit.

Stay tuned for the next post that will include Mother’s Day Midwest style, a pinball tournament, a golf tournament and league, another menu tasting at the Den, Ben and Hanna’s wedding, and our triumphant return to California. Try to “stay a believer” until then!

LINKS
Joe’s Kansas City BBQ

Mound City Golf Course

Salle House

Riverwood Winery

Tin Kitchen

Holladay Distillery

Room 108

Matt Vee and the Killer Vees