2025 Trip 5 – Return to St. Joseph, MO

This post is about our return to St. Joseph to move into our new house.

My last post had us leaving Prescott, Arizona heading for the airport in Phoenix. First, we stopped at the Cracker Barrel just outside of the airport and had lunch. Next, we dropped off Sylvia at the airport so she could fly back to California. From there, we started our drive to St. Joseph. We made it to Albuquerque by dinner time, had a decent meal, and got some sleep. The next day we drove all day and arrived at our old St. Joseph house around 11 pm. After a good night’s sleep, we started to prepare for our move. We had five days until we picked up our moving van. Then we had two days to load it and sign our documents selling the house. We had to be completely out by that day as well. Since the new house didn’t close for another five days, we stayed with Scott and Heather before we were finally able to move into our new house. And there were a few group social events during all of that as well.

Our first group event while packing was “Voices of the Past.” The experience started at the Wyeth Tootle Mansion. This year’s event was about famous musicians from St. Joseph Missouri. At the mansion, we started with a quick tour, then had our first “ghost” speakers.

After our ghost speakers, we walked to the buses that took us to the Mount Mora Cemetery for the rest of the program. Bobby and Scott were still in their golf outfits and it was quite the scene.

L to R: Scott, Heather, Bobby

At the cemetery, we heard from several more famous musician ghosts. It was very well done, as usual.

We have attended this event in the past and will definitely do it again. They would earn a link, but the website is rarely updated so I will not waste your time. The next night, we drove to Atchinson, Kansas for “Shocktails.” Shocktails is put on by the City of Atchinson, Kansas, which is considered by many to be the most haunted city in Kansas. We arrived at the city’s Visitor Center and had a few very watered-down drinks. Then it was on to a trolley for our haunted houses tour.

The first house we visited allegedly has documented cases of paranormal activity.

The homeowner gave our group a talk about all of the paranormal activity at her house. She said the basement and third floor rooms had the most activity. She also told us she rents out rooms on the third floor via Airbnb, and many guests have had paranormal experiences.

After the talk, we were allowed to tour the house. The main floor looked pretty normal.

Next, I went to the basement with Cindy and Heather.

There was a creepy room in the basement with a red light, but no ghosts for us.

Once we went back to the trolley, Bobby told us he visited the third floor and heard footsteps when there was no one with him. Bobby does not make things up, so I know he heard something. Then another person on our trolley claimed to have captured paranormal activity in the basement and shared the picture with all of us.

Many people on our tour believed the picture contained a ghost. I thought it contained a double exposure of a hand and the creepy red room in the basement. From the outside, the second house we visited looked like a normal older house in need of a little work.

There was a sign in Latin near the entrance.

The phrase “inter mortem et memoriam amor loquitur” translates to “between life and memory, love speaks” in English. This phrase reflects the idea that love and memory are powerful forces that transcend death and time. That let me know this was going to be an interesting visit and I was not disappointed. The homeowner talked about all of the paranormal activity in the house and believed it came from two sources. One was the fact the house was a kind of orphanage in the past and she believed some of the children were abused and died there. This was based on the house having a secret room that you had to access via a secret passage that went over a staircase.

The window on the right was to that secret room. Creepy story and the stairway felt creepy as well. Here is a picture of the most haunted room in the house. It felt normal to me.

The homeowner said the second reason the house was so haunted is because she was sure there were dead bodies buried in the basement and front yard. They continually excavate the basement but have not found anything yet. A cadaver dog hit on the front yard indicating something dead was buried in the yard. They dug up that part of the yard, but nothing. They plan to continue digging in the basement and yard until they find something. The next house we stopped at was really interesting.

The homeowner had purchased the house when it was in rough condition and has spent the last several years fixing it up. Here are some pictures of the inside.

He really likes Halloween and decorates the whole house. He also decorates for Christmas as well. Here is the homeowner holding his pet crow during our “talk.”

The homeowner explained how his house was also haunted, but by friendly spirits. They often hear noises, have things moved around, and see aberrations, but they are not negative or scary. I never felt anything negative in the house while we visited so maybe Casper does live there. Our final stop was at the “Sally House,” the most haunted house in Kansas. The basic story is the house was owned by the town doctor, and he did medical procedures and surgeries in the house. Several people died and are believed to be haunting the house. The most famous is a girl Sally, who died on the kitchen table during a failed appendix surgery. We have visited this house twice, and it felt heavy and off both times. This time was no different. The first two times we visited, I went to the children’s room and found a Magic 8 Ball. Both times I asked it if the house was haunted and both times it gave an affirmative answer. Once again, I went straight to the children’s room.

I found the Magic 8 Ball and once again asked it if the house was haunted. Here was the answer this time.

Make up your own mind, but to me, the Sally House was the only house we visited that night that I would not spend the night in. The next day, Cindy and I picked up the moving truck and started to load it.

We were able to load everything except for the really heavy items like dressers, beds, and couches. On Monday, Bobby, Don, and Marie helped us load the heavy items and we were officially out of the house and officially guests at Casa De Culver. That night, the whole gang went to see Don, Scott, Bobby, and Machelle bowl in their bowling league.

I loved how this sign was over the lane they were assigned. It said it all.

Friday rolled around and we signed the papers for our new house. Here we are with our realtor, Kristen Wilds.

We really do love our agent. If you need an agent for either Missouri or Kansas, use the link at the bottom of this post and tell Kristen we sent you. After we signed our papers, we drove the moving truck to the new house and unloaded with the help of Scott, Bobby, Don, Marie, and most importantly two college kids we hired to do the heavy lifting. With everyone’s efforts, we finished unloading the truck in only an hour. We are lucky to have such great friends. Now a little about the move. In an earlier post I talked about how a tornado came a little too close for comfort and our old house did not have a basement. We decided we really needed a basement. A larger kitchen and space for entertaining would be a bonus. We were able to get all of that with our new house. There were a few things we needed done, several of them being electrical related. We had Garrett fly out and spend a week with us to see the new house, do some electrical work, and also do some sightseeing. A few days into Garrett’s stay, we took him to the Den to see their Halloween decorations and have a drink. Here are some of the decorations.

The Den is always a great visit. If you want to visit, just use the link at the end of this post. A few days later, we visited the Remington Nature Center. It only takes a few hours to see the whole thing, and it is worth the time.

Feel free to use the link at the end of this post for information on the Remington Nature Center. A few days after this, Garrett flew home. We really enjoyed his visit and appreciated his help with the home projects. Our first group activity was at Scott and Heather’s house where we carved pumpkins.

I didn’t take any notes and forgot who did which pumpkin, with the exception of #7. Cindy and I did that one. Regardless of who did what, there were some creative pumpkins by the end of the night. A few days later, we all returned to the Den for Halloween trivia night. Below is the host Bob Schultz with Heather seated to the right.

Above, left to right: Heather, Marie, Scott, Don, Bobby

At the beginning of November, we finally found a dining room table big enough to seat 10 people. After it was delivered and set up, we hosted a large dinner.

L to R: Scott, Heather, Don, Marie, Bobby, Machelle, Cindy, Lauren

Everyone had a great time and the new table worked out perfectly. A few days later, we returned to the Den for beverages and to see their Christmas decorations.

They always do a great job at the Den so be sure to visit when you are in town. The last thing we did before Cindy and I headed back to California, was a round of golf even though it was November and had cooled of significantly.

When the weather gets that cold, here is how you have to dress to golf.

Cold or not, the four golf musketeers had a great time. My next post will be about our return to California, with stops in Kansas, and two in Texas. Until then, stay warm!

LINKS

Shocktails

Kristen Wilds – Real Estate Agent

The Den

Remington Nature Center

Trip 6 – The Culver move to St. Joseph, Missouri

This trip was more of a “working” vacation for Cindy, our daughter Corrianne, and I as we spent 3 1/2 days driving moving trucks from Santa Clarita to St. Joseph, followed by day 4 being the unloading of the moving trucks. This left 3 1/2 days for sightseeing before we flew home.

Day –3

Just like the trip where Corrianne and I helped the Burdick family move to Texas, this trip actually started three days before we left for Missouri. So on Day negative 3, I was at Burbank airport for a flight to Las Vegas.

Why Las Vegas you ask? Because like the Burdick move, the moving trucks are way less expensive in Las Vegas compared to Los Angeles. One 26 foot moving truck one way from Los Angeles to St. Joseph, Missouri was around $4,600. A 26 foot AND a 16 foot (yes, two moving trucks) from Las Vegas to St. Joseph, Missouri was around $1,600. That is crazy and it explains why I was flying to Las Vegas to meet Scott so we could drive the two trucks home.

Day -2

This was pack up the trucks day. With several other people, we loaded the 26 foot moving truck to the brim, the 16 foot moving truck to the brim, Scott’s pick up truck to the brim, Heather’s SUV to the brim, and an 8 x 16 foot trailer that was attached to the 16 foot truck. All of this was accomplished in about 6 hours. The Culvers had a lot of stuff, but somehow we got it all packed up and ready to go.

Day -1

This was a relaxing day for us as the Culvers used it to clean their house and take care of all of the loose ends before their move. I really liked having the rest day between the packing day and the multiple driving days.

Days 1, 2, and 3

So here was the line up. I drove the 26 foot diesel truck with air brakes that had numismatic shocks under the driver’s seat so I was constantly bouncing up and down like I was sitting on rubber ball.

Scott drove the 16 foot gas engine truck and towed the 16 foot trailer. He also had their two dogs with him.

Cindy and Corrianne (mostly Corrianne) drove Scott’s truck. I do not have a picture of that, but here is Cindy inside Heather’s SUV with the dogs hanging out with her.

Heather drove her SUV with her daughter Lauren giving her about an hour break per day. Here are the cats in the SUV.

In case you were wondering, cats do not like to be in cages in cars for days upon a time. I’m just saying.

The majority (three days worth) of the trip was on the 40 East, which parallels Historic Route 66 for most of the trip. Our first day goal was Holbrook, Arizona, and we achieved that goal. Here is a picture of the yellow caravan on the road.

Here I am at one of our stops. No, I have not had a lot of tattoos added. I am wearing “tattoo sleeves” to protect my arms from the sun while driving. That way I could be a tough trucker by day and a mild mannered traveler by night.

Here are some pictures from the road.

And here is Scott driving into the promised land.

By the end of day three, we made it to Joplin, Missouri. We had dinner at the Cracker Barrel, and came out to a cool lightening storm.

Day 4

This was our final push to the new homestead. After a 3 1/2 hour drive, we pulled into the driveway of the Culver’s new home. Here is a shot at how full we had the 26 foot trailer loaded.

With the help of several relatives, Dan Burdick, Scott’s parents, and four local high school football players, we unloaded 42 feet of moving trucks, a 16 foot trailer, a pick up truck, and an SUV, cleaned the moving trucks and returned them, all in 4 1/2 hours. Now that is impressive. After all that work, Dan Burdick drove us to our hotel, which was also his hotel. We all got cleaned up, went to dinner, and went to bed.

Day 5

This was our sightseeing day in St. Joseph. First, Dan helped me rent and pick up a rental car so Cindy, Corrianne, and I could get around since Dan was heading home after lunch. Then we all went to the Stetson Hat Co. Outlet Store. This is a must visit if you are looking for a great deal on a hat, western clothes or a western jacket. Dan and Corrianne both got great deals on hats. They had some really nice winter jackets on sale for only $10! Of course, none of them fit me right. Our next stop was the St. Joseph Boot Company. Another must stop for a great deal on western wear. Dan ended up with a great deal on a new pair of boots.

After this stop, Dan parted company with us and headed home to Texas. Cindy, Corrianne, and I went to the American Gold Mine Pawn Store, across the street from the St. Joseph Boot Company. This was one of the larger pawn shops we have been in and the staff was very helpful. Next stop was to look at some of the area neighborhoods and the prices for houses. If you are looking for a great deal on a house, there were many to be found. The average 3 bedroom, 2 bath, 2,000 square foot house with less then an acre of land typically went for around $300,000. So what’s the catch? High humidity and the occasional tornado.

Day 6

We headed down to Kansas City, on the Missouri side, and stopped at the historic City Market where there was a farmer’s market taking place. There was a menagerie of shops, vendors, and food. The amount of fresh fruit and vegetables available was impressive.

After strolling around the City Market, we walked a few blocks to the Strange Days Brewing Company and enjoyed some locally brewed beer.

We walked off our beer and drove over to see the Chiefs (football) and Royals (baseball) stadiums that are next to each other. When we arrived, the gates were locked and there was a security guard at the gates. He told us there was a Royals game in progress and we were not allowed in. It was weird to be next to a baseball stadium with a game in progress and it was silent. And the parking lot was empty. Very Eerie. Here is Kauffman Stadium, the Royals’ stadium.

And here is Arrowhead, the Chief’s Stadium.

We went to our hotel, which was in downtown Kansas City. We walked a few blocks to dinner and checked out some of the area. I have to say downtown Kansas City was very clean and we always felt safe. They have a done a great job with their downtown area.

Day 7

This was our last full day on this trip and we started with breakfast, sort of. One of the things we have liked about staying at a Hilton or Holiday Inn is the free breakfast. Pre-covid, it used to be a buffet that was very good. In a post-covid world, here is what our free breakfast looked like.

So we nibbled on our “breakfast” and headed out for the day. We started by taking the free downtown train to Union Station.

Across the street was the National WWI Museum and Memorial. We never made it into the museum, but the grounds were beautiful.

Outside of Union Station, was a statue of one of my relatives.

Inside the station was a dinosaur display, so of course we had to see that.

We took the train back to our hotel, got our car, and drove to Country Club Plaza for some lunch and window shopping.

There was a river that ran through the area.

After lunch, we went and had some ice cream at the famous Ice Cream Bae. The ice cream was outstanding! Here is Corrianne with a cone covered with fruity pebbles.

We were going to have BBQ dinner at either Auther Bryant or Gates and Sons, when the staff at our hotel told us those places were good, but were for the tourists. They told us to go to where all of the locals go, Q39. So we did. Here is my super delicious dinner and just a few of their BBQ awards. I had the ribs, brisket, potato salad, and cucumber and onion salad. This is a must stop and eat.

Day 8

On our way to the airport, we stopped by the Legends Outlet Mall on the Kansas side of Kansas City. Because it was on the Kansas side, they had a Wizard of Oz theme and of course a yellow brick sidewalk.

Inside the Cavender’s store was probably the most disturbing mannequin I have ever seen.

Across the street was Children’s Mercy Park, the professional soccer stadium.

I had to get the pictures because it seemed to me like the logo was a bit twisted. It looked like the adult either had the child in a headlock or was getting ready to throw him off of the top of the stadium. Maybe it’s just me.

We had an uneventful and safe flight home.

Our next trip is with our friend Sylvia and her daughter to Monterey California.