2025 Trip 5, The Drive To California

This post is about our drive from St. Joseph to Santa Clarita, with stops in Wichita, Kansas; Spring, Texas; and Marfa, Texas.

Our first stop on the trip to California was an overnight stay in Wichita, Kansas. The next day we went to Tankanyika Wildlife Park so we could see the internet sensation baby pygmy hippo Mars. Here is the entrance.

Our first activity was an add on we paid extra for but was really worth it. It was a meet and greet with a capybara. We learned the capybara is the largest living rodent and is native to South America. It’s closely related to guinea pigs and distantly related to chinchilla and nutria. Capybara are highly social and can be found in groups as large as one hundred. They have no natural predators, so they can be very friendly. Our capybara was named “Pinto” and was pretty friendly.

We got to pet Pinto. They like to be pet on their chins, chest, or butts, but not the top of the head. Her hair was very course and bristly.

Pinto even climbed in our laps.

Next we went to the Pygmy Hippo display and saw Mars’ dad, Pluto.

In the wild the mother pygmy hippo raises the children while the fathers stay away. The park mimics that so Pluto is allowed in the enclosure separately from Mars and his mom, Posey. We got to feed Pluto while he was out. We fed him by throwing food into his mouth from about ten feet away.

We walked thru the kangaroo display and were able to pet some of them and a giant tortoise. The kangaroo fur is really soft like rabbit fur.

Our next fun experience was to have a lemur sit on our lap in the lemur exhibit. Our lemur was named Acon.

The next interactive display we visited was feeding the Lorikeet birds.

A bird named Peanut really liked Cindy and crawled all over her.

I got to feed a rhino. It was like feeding the hippo, but you were a little closer.

This placed was full of surprises. There was a python display in one of the Men’s bathrooms.

Here are some of the other animals we saw on our visit.

Red Ruffed Lemur
African Serval

There was a huge variety of monkeys.

And several birds.

And finally, here are some pictures of Mars and his mom Posey.

We spent about five hours at the park and were able to see all of it. Tankanyika Wildlife Park is a must visit. Use the link below to have a great time yourself. After our really enjoyable visit, we hit the road and drove to Ardmore Oklahoma where we spent the night to break up the drive. The next day, we finished the drive to Spring, Texas. We stayed with our daughter and her fiancé for the weekend. The first day, they took us to a local winery they are members at, Bernhardt Winery, for an event with shopping and wine tasting.

Corrianne had a made a delicious charcuterie picnic for us, so we found a table and set it up.

The grounds were beautiful.

They even had a live band play named, “The Trips.” They were a trio and they were tripletts. The music was not great, but was fine for the setting.

After our snacks and some music, we went in for some wine tasting. Most of the wines were average, but a few were really good. So good, we actually bought some to take home. We ended up buying some “Bayou Blend,” a red wine blend. The winery described it as a blend of 100% Texas grapes that embodies southeast Texas with essence of Spanish moss, evergreen, and cypress. It showcases dark fruit notes, earth, and hothouse flowers. Whatever. We really liked it and it was reasonable priced at around $25. We enjoyed our visit to Bernhardt Winery, and we are sure you would enjoy a visit as well, so use the link at the end of this post. Before we left Corrianne’s house, we had a gingerbread house making contest. It was Cindy and I versus Corrianne and Alex. Here is our entry.

Here is Corrianne and Alex’s house.

We all agreed Corrianne and Alex had the better house and won this round. The next day we drove to Marfa, Texas.

We stayed at the Hotel St. George.

I would say it was in the downtown area, but the downtown area is so small, it seemed like everything was within the downtown area. Our room was really nice. The shower had an interesting log piece in it.

After getting checked in, we had dinner in the hotel’s restaurant. It was very good but not quite link worthy. The next morning, we walked to breakfast at the Sentinel. On the way there, a train went by and we now knew the source of the nighttime train noises.

The Sentinel had great food and is worth the stop. Use the link to try it for yourself.

Across the street was the Marfa Spirit Company. We really wanted to check it out but it was not open during our stay. We stayed over a Monday and Tuesday and learned a lot of things in Marfa are closed on Monday and Tuesday. Something to consider if you are planning a visit to Marfa.

After breakfast, we walked around the town area.

One of the Marfa art galleries.

We ended up at the Presidio County Courthouse.

Here it is from a distance.

Here are some pictures from the inside of the courthouse.

There was a stairway that led to the dome. Of course we had to check it out.

The view from the dome was pretty good.

Walking back down the stairway was a little intimidating, but we did it.

I found a hilarious sign at the Auditors’ Office. Government employees have the same sense of humor no matter where you are.

We walked to the Para Llevar Bodega and Deli for lunch, but it was on the closed-on Monday and Tuesday plan. Our next stop was Angel’s Mexican Restaurant, a sketchy looking building on the outskirts of town.

Luckily, the food was fine and we survived lunch.

We walked around a bit more and returned to our hotel to freshen up for dinner. We ate dinner at the Waterstop. It was the previous location where all the steam trains stopped to get water along their various routes. Now it is an above average restaurant.

We were seated next to the bar, so of course we had to have a drink. They were delicious.

Our meal was pretty good; however, I ordered my steak medium rare, and it came out rare. So rare, I had to send it back to be cooked a bit more. That eliminated any chance of a link. We returned to our hotel and slept. Unlike the Waterstop, the Hotel St. George is very link worthy. You know where it is so use it for a great stay in Marfa. About 30 minutes out of town is an art exhibit called Prada Marfa. It was erected in 2005 in the middle of nowhere. It looks like a stand-alone store but is not. The artists had Prada’s permission to use the trademark.

Marfa is a very interesting town and worth a stop. For the best stop, plan on staying there any days except Mondays or Tuesdays. We will return……Just not on a Monday or Tuesday. Use the below link to check it out for yourself.

My next post will cover the rest of the year, including a short trip to Carlsbad, California. Until then, try and avoid the fake name brand shops in the middle of nowhere.

LINKS

Tankanyika Wildlife Park

Bernhardt Winery

The Sentinel

Hotel St. George

Marfa

2025 Trip 5 – Return to St. Joseph, MO

This post is about our return to St. Joseph to move into our new house.

My last post had us leaving Prescott, Arizona heading for the airport in Phoenix. First, we stopped at the Cracker Barrel just outside of the airport and had lunch. Next, we dropped off Sylvia at the airport so she could fly back to California. From there, we started our drive to St. Joseph. We made it to Albuquerque by dinner time, had a decent meal, and got some sleep. The next day we drove all day and arrived at our old St. Joseph house around 11 pm. After a good night’s sleep, we started to prepare for our move. We had five days until we picked up our moving van. Then we had two days to load it and sign our documents selling the house. We had to be completely out by that day as well. Since the new house didn’t close for another five days, we stayed with Scott and Heather before we were finally able to move into our new house. And there were a few group social events during all of that as well.

Our first group event while packing was “Voices of the Past.” The experience started at the Wyeth Tootle Mansion. This year’s event was about famous musicians from St. Joseph Missouri. At the mansion, we started with a quick tour, then had our first “ghost” speakers.

After our ghost speakers, we walked to the buses that took us to the Mount Mora Cemetery for the rest of the program. Bobby and Scott were still in their golf outfits and it was quite the scene.

L to R: Scott, Heather, Bobby

At the cemetery, we heard from several more famous musician ghosts. It was very well done, as usual.

We have attended this event in the past and will definitely do it again. They would earn a link, but the website is rarely updated so I will not waste your time. The next night, we drove to Atchinson, Kansas for “Shocktails.” Shocktails is put on by the City of Atchinson, Kansas, which is considered by many to be the most haunted city in Kansas. We arrived at the city’s Visitor Center and had a few very watered-down drinks. Then it was on to a trolley for our haunted houses tour.

The first house we visited allegedly has documented cases of paranormal activity.

The homeowner gave our group a talk about all of the paranormal activity at her house. She said the basement and third floor rooms had the most activity. She also told us she rents out rooms on the third floor via Airbnb, and many guests have had paranormal experiences.

After the talk, we were allowed to tour the house. The main floor looked pretty normal.

Next, I went to the basement with Cindy and Heather.

There was a creepy room in the basement with a red light, but no ghosts for us.

Once we went back to the trolley, Bobby told us he visited the third floor and heard footsteps when there was no one with him. Bobby does not make things up, so I know he heard something. Then another person on our trolley claimed to have captured paranormal activity in the basement and shared the picture with all of us.

Many people on our tour believed the picture contained a ghost. I thought it contained a double exposure of a hand and the creepy red room in the basement. From the outside, the second house we visited looked like a normal older house in need of a little work.

There was a sign in Latin near the entrance.

The phrase “inter mortem et memoriam amor loquitur” translates to “between life and memory, love speaks” in English. This phrase reflects the idea that love and memory are powerful forces that transcend death and time. That let me know this was going to be an interesting visit and I was not disappointed. The homeowner talked about all of the paranormal activity in the house and believed it came from two sources. One was the fact the house was a kind of orphanage in the past and she believed some of the children were abused and died there. This was based on the house having a secret room that you had to access via a secret passage that went over a staircase.

The window on the right was to that secret room. Creepy story and the stairway felt creepy as well. Here is a picture of the most haunted room in the house. It felt normal to me.

The homeowner said the second reason the house was so haunted is because she was sure there were dead bodies buried in the basement and front yard. They continually excavate the basement but have not found anything yet. A cadaver dog hit on the front yard indicating something dead was buried in the yard. They dug up that part of the yard, but nothing. They plan to continue digging in the basement and yard until they find something. The next house we stopped at was really interesting.

The homeowner had purchased the house when it was in rough condition and has spent the last several years fixing it up. Here are some pictures of the inside.

He really likes Halloween and decorates the whole house. He also decorates for Christmas as well. Here is the homeowner holding his pet crow during our “talk.”

The homeowner explained how his house was also haunted, but by friendly spirits. They often hear noises, have things moved around, and see aberrations, but they are not negative or scary. I never felt anything negative in the house while we visited so maybe Casper does live there. Our final stop was at the “Sally House,” the most haunted house in Kansas. The basic story is the house was owned by the town doctor, and he did medical procedures and surgeries in the house. Several people died and are believed to be haunting the house. The most famous is a girl Sally, who died on the kitchen table during a failed appendix surgery. We have visited this house twice, and it felt heavy and off both times. This time was no different. The first two times we visited, I went to the children’s room and found a Magic 8 Ball. Both times I asked it if the house was haunted and both times it gave an affirmative answer. Once again, I went straight to the children’s room.

I found the Magic 8 Ball and once again asked it if the house was haunted. Here was the answer this time.

Make up your own mind, but to me, the Sally House was the only house we visited that night that I would not spend the night in. The next day, Cindy and I picked up the moving truck and started to load it.

We were able to load everything except for the really heavy items like dressers, beds, and couches. On Monday, Bobby, Don, and Marie helped us load the heavy items and we were officially out of the house and officially guests at Casa De Culver. That night, the whole gang went to see Don, Scott, Bobby, and Machelle bowl in their bowling league.

I loved how this sign was over the lane they were assigned. It said it all.

Friday rolled around and we signed the papers for our new house. Here we are with our realtor, Kristen Wilds.

We really do love our agent. If you need an agent for either Missouri or Kansas, use the link at the bottom of this post and tell Kristen we sent you. After we signed our papers, we drove the moving truck to the new house and unloaded with the help of Scott, Bobby, Don, Marie, and most importantly two college kids we hired to do the heavy lifting. With everyone’s efforts, we finished unloading the truck in only an hour. We are lucky to have such great friends. Now a little about the move. In an earlier post I talked about how a tornado came a little too close for comfort and our old house did not have a basement. We decided we really needed a basement. A larger kitchen and space for entertaining would be a bonus. We were able to get all of that with our new house. There were a few things we needed done, several of them being electrical related. We had Garrett fly out and spend a week with us to see the new house, do some electrical work, and also do some sightseeing. A few days into Garrett’s stay, we took him to the Den to see their Halloween decorations and have a drink. Here are some of the decorations.

The Den is always a great visit. If you want to visit, just use the link at the end of this post. A few days later, we visited the Remington Nature Center. It only takes a few hours to see the whole thing, and it is worth the time.

Feel free to use the link at the end of this post for information on the Remington Nature Center. A few days after this, Garrett flew home. We really enjoyed his visit and appreciated his help with the home projects. Our first group activity was at Scott and Heather’s house where we carved pumpkins.

I didn’t take any notes and forgot who did which pumpkin, with the exception of #7. Cindy and I did that one. Regardless of who did what, there were some creative pumpkins by the end of the night. A few days later, we all returned to the Den for Halloween trivia night. Below is the host Bob Schultz with Heather seated to the right.

Above, left to right: Heather, Marie, Scott, Don, Bobby

At the beginning of November, we finally found a dining room table big enough to seat 10 people. After it was delivered and set up, we hosted a large dinner.

L to R: Scott, Heather, Don, Marie, Bobby, Machelle, Cindy, Lauren

Everyone had a great time and the new table worked out perfectly. A few days later, we returned to the Den for beverages and to see their Christmas decorations.

They always do a great job at the Den so be sure to visit when you are in town. The last thing we did before Cindy and I headed back to California, was a round of golf even though it was November and had cooled of significantly.

When the weather gets that cold, here is how you have to dress to golf.

Cold or not, the four golf musketeers had a great time. My next post will be about our return to California, with stops in Kansas, and two in Texas. Until then, stay warm!

LINKS

Shocktails

Kristen Wilds – Real Estate Agent

The Den

Remington Nature Center