2025 Trip 5 – Return to St. Joseph, MO

This post is about our return to St. Joseph to move into our new house.

My last post had us leaving Prescott, Arizona heading for the airport in Phoenix. First, we stopped at the Cracker Barrel just outside of the airport and had lunch. Next, we dropped off Sylvia at the airport so she could fly back to California. From there, we started our drive to St. Joseph. We made it to Albuquerque by dinner time, had a decent meal, and got some sleep. The next day we drove all day and arrived at our old St. Joseph house around 11 pm. After a good night’s sleep, we started to prepare for our move. We had five days until we picked up our moving van. Then we had two days to load it and sign our documents selling the house. We had to be completely out by that day as well. Since the new house didn’t close for another five days, we stayed with Scott and Heather before we were finally able to move into our new house. And there were a few group social events during all of that as well.

Our first group event while packing was “Voices of the Past.” The experience started at the Wyeth Tootle Mansion. This year’s event was about famous musicians from St. Joseph Missouri. At the mansion, we started with a quick tour, then had our first “ghost” speakers.

After our ghost speakers, we walked to the buses that took us to the Mount Mora Cemetery for the rest of the program. Bobby and Scott were still in their golf outfits and it was quite the scene.

L to R: Scott, Heather, Bobby

At the cemetery, we heard from several more famous musician ghosts. It was very well done, as usual.

We have attended this event in the past and will definitely do it again. They would earn a link, but the website is rarely updated so I will not waste your time. The next night, we drove to Atchinson, Kansas for “Shocktails.” Shocktails is put on by the City of Atchinson, Kansas, which is considered by many to be the most haunted city in Kansas. We arrived at the city’s Visitor Center and had a few very watered-down drinks. Then it was on to a trolley for our haunted houses tour.

The first house we visited allegedly has documented cases of paranormal activity.

The homeowner gave our group a talk about all of the paranormal activity at her house. She said the basement and third floor rooms had the most activity. She also told us she rents out rooms on the third floor via Airbnb, and many guests have had paranormal experiences.

After the talk, we were allowed to tour the house. The main floor looked pretty normal.

Next, I went to the basement with Cindy and Heather.

There was a creepy room in the basement with a red light, but no ghosts for us.

Once we went back to the trolley, Bobby told us he visited the third floor and heard footsteps when there was no one with him. Bobby does not make things up, so I know he heard something. Then another person on our trolley claimed to have captured paranormal activity in the basement and shared the picture with all of us.

Many people on our tour believed the picture contained a ghost. I thought it contained a double exposure of a hand and the creepy red room in the basement. From the outside, the second house we visited looked like a normal older house in need of a little work.

There was a sign in Latin near the entrance.

The phrase “inter mortem et memoriam amor loquitur” translates to “between life and memory, love speaks” in English. This phrase reflects the idea that love and memory are powerful forces that transcend death and time. That let me know this was going to be an interesting visit and I was not disappointed. The homeowner talked about all of the paranormal activity in the house and believed it came from two sources. One was the fact the house was a kind of orphanage in the past and she believed some of the children were abused and died there. This was based on the house having a secret room that you had to access via a secret passage that went over a staircase.

The window on the right was to that secret room. Creepy story and the stairway felt creepy as well. Here is a picture of the most haunted room in the house. It felt normal to me.

The homeowner said the second reason the house was so haunted is because she was sure there were dead bodies buried in the basement and front yard. They continually excavate the basement but have not found anything yet. A cadaver dog hit on the front yard indicating something dead was buried in the yard. They dug up that part of the yard, but nothing. They plan to continue digging in the basement and yard until they find something. The next house we stopped at was really interesting.

The homeowner had purchased the house when it was in rough condition and has spent the last several years fixing it up. Here are some pictures of the inside.

He really likes Halloween and decorates the whole house. He also decorates for Christmas as well. Here is the homeowner holding his pet crow during our “talk.”

The homeowner explained how his house was also haunted, but by friendly spirits. They often hear noises, have things moved around, and see aberrations, but they are not negative or scary. I never felt anything negative in the house while we visited so maybe Casper does live there. Our final stop was at the “Sally House,” the most haunted house in Kansas. The basic story is the house was owned by the town doctor, and he did medical procedures and surgeries in the house. Several people died and are believed to be haunting the house. The most famous is a girl Sally, who died on the kitchen table during a failed appendix surgery. We have visited this house twice, and it felt heavy and off both times. This time was no different. The first two times we visited, I went to the children’s room and found a Magic 8 Ball. Both times I asked it if the house was haunted and both times it gave an affirmative answer. Once again, I went straight to the children’s room.

I found the Magic 8 Ball and once again asked it if the house was haunted. Here was the answer this time.

Make up your own mind, but to me, the Sally House was the only house we visited that night that I would not spend the night in. The next day, Cindy and I picked up the moving truck and started to load it.

We were able to load everything except for the really heavy items like dressers, beds, and couches. On Monday, Bobby, Don, and Marie helped us load the heavy items and we were officially out of the house and officially guests at Casa De Culver. That night, the whole gang went to see Don, Scott, Bobby, and Machelle bowl in their bowling league.

I loved how this sign was over the lane they were assigned. It said it all.

Friday rolled around and we signed the papers for our new house. Here we are with our realtor, Kristen Wilds.

We really do love our agent. If you need an agent for either Missouri or Kansas, use the link at the bottom of this post and tell Kristen we sent you. After we signed our papers, we drove the moving truck to the new house and unloaded with the help of Scott, Bobby, Don, Marie, and most importantly two college kids we hired to do the heavy lifting. With everyone’s efforts, we finished unloading the truck in only an hour. We are lucky to have such great friends. Now a little about the move. In an earlier post I talked about how a tornado came a little too close for comfort and our old house did not have a basement. We decided we really needed a basement. A larger kitchen and space for entertaining would be a bonus. We were able to get all of that with our new house. There were a few things we needed done, several of them being electrical related. We had Garrett fly out and spend a week with us to see the new house, do some electrical work, and also do some sightseeing. A few days into Garrett’s stay, we took him to the Den to see their Halloween decorations and have a drink. Here are some of the decorations.

The Den is always a great visit. If you want to visit, just use the link at the end of this post. A few days later, we visited the Remington Nature Center. It only takes a few hours to see the whole thing, and it is worth the time.

Feel free to use the link at the end of this post for information on the Remington Nature Center. A few days after this, Garrett flew home. We really enjoyed his visit and appreciated his help with the home projects. Our first group activity was at Scott and Heather’s house where we carved pumpkins.

I didn’t take any notes and forgot who did which pumpkin, with the exception of #7. Cindy and I did that one. Regardless of who did what, there were some creative pumpkins by the end of the night. A few days later, we all returned to the Den for Halloween trivia night. Below is the host Bob Schultz with Heather seated to the right.

Above, left to right: Heather, Marie, Scott, Don, Bobby

At the beginning of November, we finally found a dining room table big enough to seat 10 people. After it was delivered and set up, we hosted a large dinner.

L to R: Scott, Heather, Don, Marie, Bobby, Machelle, Cindy, Lauren

Everyone had a great time and the new table worked out perfectly. A few days later, we returned to the Den for beverages and to see their Christmas decorations.

They always do a great job at the Den so be sure to visit when you are in town. The last thing we did before Cindy and I headed back to California, was a round of golf even though it was November and had cooled of significantly.

When the weather gets that cold, here is how you have to dress to golf.

Cold or not, the four golf musketeers had a great time. My next post will be about our return to California, with stops in Kansas, and two in Texas. Until then, stay warm!

LINKS

Shocktails

Kristen Wilds – Real Estate Agent

The Den

Remington Nature Center

2025 Trip 4 – Prescott, AZ

This post will cover our trip to Prescott, AZ with our friend Sylvia. This was our first stop on our return to St. Joseph, MO.

We were off in the morning and had a relatively easy drive. We stopped once for gas in a small town in California and the gas was $6.60 a gallon, so I only put in enough gas to get into Arizona. Once we were inside Arizona, I filled up for $3.60 a gallon. Insanity. We stopped for lunch in Needles, California at a place called The Wagon Wheel.

This was a very interesting place. It had some unique decorations and is worth a stop just for that.

Whether you stay for the food is your choice. The food was average at best, so clearly no link for them. A few hours further down the road in Seligman, Arizona, we stopped for desert at Delgadillo’s Snow Cap on Route 66.

This is a really fun stop. The outside is surrounded by classic cars and fun signs.

The entrance doors were fun too. It had doorknobs on both sides and most people, us included, would try and open the door from the wrong side.

Because I was parked in front of the restaurant, an Asian tourist leaned up against the front of my truck and posed for several pictures. She left before we could get a picture of her. We were sure she thought the truck was part of the display and were not bothered by it at all.

The ice cream was very good as well. Delgadillo’s Snow Cap is a must stop when passing by. Use the link at the end of this post to find it for yourself. We finally made it to our Airbnb, a place we call, “Frankie’s Place.” We have stayed here twice before and really love it. On our last stay, I was able to talk to the owner, “Frankie,” who is a really nice person. The inside has some interesting art and front door.

As an avid reader, Cindy loved his selection of books.

Frankie clearly has a great sense of humor. Check out some of the titles. My favorite is, “How to Avoid People.”

Cindy said her favorite book was on the middle of this shelf. I never figured out which one it was.

The backyard was very rustic with large boulders all around. Plus, there was a spa we used almost every night.

Spa in the right side of picture

Frankie’s place is hands down one of our favorite places to stay. If you would like to stay there, search Airbnb for, “Cottage in Prescott Hosted by Frankie,” or “Home in Prescott Hosted by Frankie.” Book early because the place is booked a lot. Dinner in Prescott was at the Angry Crab Shack. This was a peel and eat crab and shrimp boil kind of place.

Cindy had the fried shrimp and fries basket. Sylvia and I had peel and eat shrimp with sausage.

You had to choose your heat levels were 0 thru 6. Sylvia and I had the one pound headless shrimp. Sylvia chose heat level 3 “Sizzling,” and I had heat level 4, Hot “Can’t fell my lips.” I originally wanted the order the 5 Angry Ghost “Inferno,” a ghost pepper based sauce. Cindy balked at the idea so I stayed with the 4. It was too mild for me. However, the 3 was at Sylvia’s limit of heat. She made several comments about how hot the spice was, but she was still able to eat all of her shrimp. The next day we walked around the historic downtown area. It is a square with shopping and restaurants surrounding the courthouse. It is called Courthouse Square. The west side of Courthouse Square is called Whiskey Row. It is called Whiskey Row because the town of Prescott began in 1864 during the gold rush. It became the first capital of the Arizona Territory. Gold brought prospectors, and businesses followed. Soon, about 40 saloons packed into the one block area, giving the street its nickname.

Whiskey row on the left and the courthouse across the street on the right

After lunch and some shopping, we returned to our place and freshened up. We were still full from lunch, so we went to Park Plaza Liquor and Deli for a drink and some snacks. This is a liquor store that also serves food and drinks. They also have a brick oven pizza oven in the back that makes great pizza. The menu is pretty varied for a liquor store. It reminded us of a Smooth Endings on steroids.

We had chips with elote dip and some drinks. Everything was delicious. We returned to our abode, went in the spa, and checked out all of the stars. The next day we drove about an hour into the mountains north of us to a ghost town named “Jerome.” Jerome is located at 5,200 feet and is built into the mountain side. In the late 1800s, copper was discovered in the area now know as Jerome. The mining peaked in the 1920s and Jerome had become one of the largest cities in Arizona, with a population around 15,000. When the mines closed in the 1950s, the town was nearly abandoned with less than 100 people remaining. If not for the artists who saved it, Jerome would be the largest ghost town in the nation. Today, you can browse art galleries that were once bordellos, mingle at restaurants that were once opium dens, and have a drink at some of the oldest saloons in the state.

The Jerome Grand Hotel sits near the top of the town.

There was a long stairway that seemed to go up the hill forever.

We had lunch at Vaqueros Grill and Cantina.

The inside was interesting with a Dia de Los Muertos theme.

The food was very good, but not to the level of earning a coveted link. Jerome is a cool little artisan town worth the visit. If you would like to check it out for yourself, use the link at the end of this post. We returned to Frankie’s Place and freshened up. Once again, we had overeaten at lunch and were not that hungry. The perfect solution was to return to the Plaza Park Liquor and Deli for drinks and salad. The ladies split a Cobb Salad and I enjoyed a Greek Chicken Salad. The salads were pretty darn good and hit the spot. We returned to our place and went in the spa again before getting some shut eye. The next day we drove just over an hour to the Montezuma Castle National Monument. Montezuma Castle is a 20-room high-rise apartment, built into a towering limestone cliff. They were occupied from 1100 AD to 1400 AD. Here are some pictures from our visit.

Diorama of the living conditions when it was occupied

Montezuma Castle National Monument is an interesting and fun stop. Use the link in the usual place to visit it yourself. We drove about half an hour to the town of Cottonwood and had lunch at Belfrey Wood Fired Grill and Brewery. The building is an old church and looks pretty cool. Cindy and Sylvia split a BLT with fries. They loved their meal and ate every last bit of it. I ordered the turkey melt with a green chili sauce and onion rings. The onion rings were some of the best I have ever had. The sandwich was really good, had plenty of turkey, and the sauce was out of this world. I could eat that sandwich for lunch every week. This place definitely earned a link so use it for some delicious eats. After lunch, we drove to the historic downtown area and did some wine tasting at Arizona Stronghold Vineyards Tasting Room.

Based on the negative experiences we have had in so many other places (we may be wine snobs since we live in California half of the year near some of the best wine in the world), we were not sure what to expect. It turns out they grow most of the same varietals in Southern Arizona as they do in California. We each tried a different tasting, so we were able to share 18 different wines.

They all ranged from good to very good. We had a really good time and enjoyed our tastings. While not link worthy, Arizona wines are well worth the time to stop and enjoy a tasting. Like McArthur, we will return. For dinner, we decided to have a nicer dinner and made reservations at the Badger’s Den. The Badger’s Den had very high reviews and was hard to get a reservation at. We hoped those were good signs.

The inside was very casual and well decorated. Our server was friendly and attentive. Cindy and Sylvia split a 16 oz ribeye with sautéed mushrooms, steamed vegetables, and a baked potato. The potato was excellent, and the vegetables were fresh and cooked to perfection. They asked for their steak to be cooked medium. It was actually cooked to between medium-rare and medium, which in my opinion, is exactly how a ribeye should be cooked. They were a little annoyed but managed to eat most of their steak.

I started with a cup of clam chowder.

It was one of the best I have ever had. My main course was the special, blackened swordfish with asparagus and rice.

The swordfish was obviously previously frozen. I expected that because there are no oceans near Arizona. That being said, it was perfectly cooked and delicious, as were the asparagus. For dessert, Cindy and Sylvia split some carrot cake.

Again, they loved it. We will definitely return, and you should try it as well. Use the link at the end of this post to get those reservations, because the Badger’s Den is a very popular place. On our last full day in Prescott, a summer thunderstorm rolled in, and we had some lightening with pretty loud thunder. The storm lasted until the early afternoon, so we stayed inside and waited it out. Once the storm was finished, we did some local shopping. For dinner, we returned to Park Plaza Liquor and Deli for some more elote dip and to try some of their pizza.

The dip, pizza, and atmosphere were outstanding. We will be back. The next day we packed up and headed to Phoenix Airport to drop Sylvias off so she could fly back to Burbank Airport. This was a necessary stop because Sylvia needed to get back to Santa Clarita and we were continuing on to our Missouri house. After dropping Sylvia off, we hit the road for Albuquerque.

My next post will be about our triumphant return to St. Joseph where we have sold our current house, have purchased another, and must move between houses with a 5-day delay between escrows closing. Happy, happy, joy, joy! Until then, don’t get caught without a house.

LINKS

Delgadillo’s Snow Cap

Park Plaza Liquor and Deli

Jerome

Montezuma Castle National Monument

Belfrey Wood Fired Grill and Brewery

Badger’s Den